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Brian Timothy "Timmy" Defelice, 58, of Hagerstown, MD, passed away peacefully Thursday, December 11, 2025 at his home, surrounded by loving family.
Born on July 6, 1967 in Hagerstown, MD, he was the son of the late Brenda Ann (Haupt) and Ronald Hugh Defelice, Sr.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his Aunt, Dolores Defelice.
Brian worked in asphalt for Wastler & Son, Inc. for 5 years until he became a caregiver for 15 years.
Brian enjoyed Bowling, Golfing and spending time with family.
He is survived by his loving wife, Pamala S. (Twigg) Defelice; Sons, Bryan Defelice and wife, Samantha of Hagerstown, MD and Nick Defelice of Falling Waters, WV; Granddaughter, Charlotte Defelice; Brother, Ronald H. Defelice, Jr. (Chanon); numerous Nephews, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins, including a close Cousin, Ed Davis; and best friend, Nathan Smith.
Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to J.L. Davis Funeral Home, 12525 Bradbury Ave. Smithsburg, MD 21783 to help offset the funeral costs.